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Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible

Let go of the chase. Attract what’s meant for you.

Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible is a transformative guide for anyone who feels stuck in patterns of self-sabotage, overthinking, or settling for less—especially in relationships. Whether you’re anxiously attached and constantly chasing love, emotionally unavailable and afraid to let anyone in, or simply tired of abandoning yourself to be chosen, this book will help you break the cycle. Through a blend of personal stories, psychology, and deeply practical tools, relationship coach Sabrina Bendory shows you how to stop tying your worth to other people’s approval, release the fear of being alone, and reconnect with the most powerful, grounded version of yourself.

Detached isn’t about becoming indifferent—it’s about becoming free. It’s about building self-trust, regulating your emotions, and no longer needing to prove your value. If you’re ready to stop giving your power away and start creating the love, confidence, and peace you’ve been craving—not by holding on tighter, but by letting go—this is your starting point.

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Meet The Author

Sabrina Alexis Bendory

Sabrina Alexis Bendory is a pioneering blogging entrepreneur who is globally recognized as a dating and relationship expert.

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